The Flag, Kneeling and the Code

The big controversy this week is over those professional athletes who choose to kneel during the national anthem as a means of drawing attention to the racism that exists in this country, and those who think that such action shows disrespect for the flag and anyone who has ever served under it.   Is kneeling an act of the free speech that the flag represents, or is it an anti-American act?  And so goes the debate. It is probable that these divisions exist on virtually any team, so how can you discuss the issue in a way that will bring respect and unity for your team – not having everyone agree, but having everyone hear and understand each other’s perspectives?  It’s always difficult for both sides to hear and understand those who disagree, and to be able to accept and respect differences.  The Code says that “I will place team goals above personal goals,” and “I will be a positive influence on the relationships on the team,” and “I will respect the dignity of every human being…”  Do these tenets help provide the basis for discussion?  How can your team face difficult issues and come out stronger as a result?  Jerry Jones and the Dallas Cowboys found one solution: they knelt before the anthem to support those who wish to call attention to the injustices that are a part of our social order, and then they stood for the anthem to show respect for the flag and the country.  What do you think of their decision?  Are there other solutions?